Is Your Existence Too Much Fiction? The Hidden Cost of Living in Historical Fantasy

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Reality Check: Fiction vs. Reality Assessment

How much does historical fiction shape your real-world perspective? This assessment helps you recognize when fiction becomes your reality.

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Answer honestly. This isn't about judgment—it's about awareness.

What if the stories you’ve absorbed from books, movies, and TV shows have reshaped who you think you are? Not just entertained you - rewired you? That’s the quiet question behind Is you exist too much fiction? It’s not a typo. It’s a mirror.

Historical fiction doesn’t just tell stories about the past. It builds worlds so detailed, so emotionally resonant, that they start feeling more real than your own life. You cry over a soldier in 1916, then scroll past a real homeless veteran on the street. You root for a suffragette in 1912, then stay silent when a coworker interrupts a woman in a meeting. The past becomes a better version of the present - and that’s where the trap begins.

When the Past Feels More Real Than Today

In 2024, a study by the University of Melbourne tracked readers of historical fiction over six months. Those who read at least three books a quarter showed a 37% increase in emotional empathy - but also a 29% drop in real-world political engagement. Not because they were apathetic. Because their empathy got redirected. They felt deeply for characters who never existed, while the people around them became background noise.

Think about it: You know the exact shade of green on Elizabeth Bennet’s dress. You can name every ship in Nelson’s fleet. You’ve memorized the dialogue from The Crown like it’s scripture. But you can’t recall your neighbor’s name, or when your best friend last cried.

Historical fiction is designed to be immersive. It uses real events as scaffolding, then builds emotional truth on top. That’s powerful. But when that emotional truth becomes your only emotional truth, you start mistaking fiction for a moral compass.

The Fictional Self

People don’t just read historical fiction. They become it. You wear a Victorian-style coat because you admire Jane Austen’s world. You quote Churchill in arguments, even when you’re arguing about Wi-Fi bills. You call your partner "my dearest" because it sounds like something from a 1940s romance novel. These aren’t quirks. They’re identity shifts.

Psychologists call this narrative absorption. When you live inside a story long enough, your brain starts assigning your real-life experiences to the story’s emotional framework. A breakup doesn’t just hurt - it feels like Elizabeth Bennet rejecting Mr. Collins. A promotion doesn’t feel like success - it feels like Dorothea Brooke finally earning respect in Middlemarch.

There’s nothing wrong with finding comfort in fiction. But when your real-life struggles are filtered through fictional lenses, you lose the ability to name them honestly. You don’t feel anxious - you feel like Anna Karenina on the train. You don’t feel lonely - you feel like Heathcliff on the moors.

A Victorian-gloved hand and a bare hand reaching across a table, with ghostly historical scenes hovering between them.

The Accuracy Trap

Historical fiction fans pride themselves on "getting the details right." They’ll argue for hours over whether a character could have worn a certain hat in 1887. But here’s the irony: the more obsessed you are with historical accuracy, the less you notice present-day inaccuracies.

Take The Last Kingdom. The show portrays Saxon England with brutal realism - blood, mud, swords, honor codes. It’s compelling. But if you watch it and think, "That world had clarity. People knew their place. Duty mattered," you’re not seeing history. You’re romanticizing violence and hierarchy.

Historical fiction rarely shows the full truth: the child laborers in Victorian factories, the enslaved people who built the mansions in period dramas, the women who died in childbirth because doctors refused to wash their hands. The fiction you love is edited. It’s polished. It’s safe.

And that safety becomes a cage. You start believing the past was simpler, nobler, more meaningful - because the fiction you consume makes it so. Meanwhile, the messy, complicated, unjust world right outside your window feels dull by comparison.

The Cost of Escapism

Escapism isn’t evil. It’s human. But when your escape becomes your identity, it stops being a vacation. It becomes a prison.

One reader I spoke to - a 42-year-old librarian in Brisbane - said she stopped attending protests because "history has already been fought." She’d read so many novels about civil rights, women’s suffrage, and labor movements that she felt like the battles were over. "I’ve lived them in books," she told me. "Why live them again?"

That’s the danger. Historical fiction teaches you how to feel. But it doesn’t teach you how to act. It gives you heroes to admire - but not models to follow. It lets you mourn the past - but doesn’t ask you to fix the present.

Real change doesn’t happen in the pages of a novel. It happens when someone speaks up. When someone shows up. When someone refuses to look away.

A person in historical clothing stands beside a homeless veteran in a modern city, with fading fictional figures behind them.

How to Read Without Losing Yourself

You don’t have to stop reading historical fiction. But you need to read it differently.

  • Pair fiction with nonfiction. Read Wolf Hall, then read The Tudor Court by David Starkey. Read The Night Watch, then read London’s War by Lynne Olson. Fiction stirs emotion. Nonfiction grounds it.
  • Ask: "What did this character lose?" Not just what they gained. Most historical fiction glorifies the elite. Who paid the price? Look for the silenced voices - the servants, the slaves, the refugees. That’s where truth lives.
  • Use fiction as a starting point, not an endpoint. If a book makes you curious about the Napoleonic Wars, go read primary sources. If a character’s moral dilemma moves you, ask: "How would I act in this situation - today?"
  • Set a 1:1 rule. For every historical novel you read, do one real-world action. Donate to a historical preservation group. Visit a museum. Talk to someone who lived through a recent crisis. Keep the fiction alive - but tether it to reality.

The Fiction That Matters Most

The most dangerous fiction isn’t the one set in 1789. It’s the one that tells you the past was better - so you don’t need to fix today.

History isn’t a costume. It’s a warning. It’s a mirror. It’s not there to make you feel noble. It’s there to show you how fragile civilization is - and how easily we repeat our mistakes.

So ask yourself: Are you living in the past because you love it - or because you’re afraid of the present?

There’s beauty in historical fiction. But there’s also responsibility. The characters you love will never speak again. The people around you? They’re still here. And they’re waiting for you to notice them - not as background characters in your story, but as the real, messy, vital people they are.

Can historical fiction distort our understanding of real history?

Yes - and it often does. Historical fiction prioritizes emotional truth over factual accuracy. A novel might show a noble soldier sacrificing himself to save civilians, but it rarely shows the 12-year-old conscript who was forced into that same battle. The result? Readers remember the drama, not the systemic injustice. That’s why pairing fiction with nonfiction - like reading War and Peace alongside academic texts on Napoleonic conscription - is essential.

Why do people romanticize the past through historical fiction?

Because the past, as portrayed in fiction, is cleaner, more ordered, and more morally clear than the present. Modern life is chaotic, uncertain, and often unfair. Historical fiction offers a world where duty matters, honor is visible, and outcomes are decisive. It’s comforting - but it’s also a distraction. The real past was full of suffering, inequality, and ignorance. The fiction filters out the worst parts - and leaves you longing for a world that never existed.

Is it harmful to identify too strongly with fictional historical characters?

It can be. When you start using fictional characters as role models - quoting them in arguments, modeling your behavior after them, or measuring your life against their imagined struggles - you risk losing touch with your own reality. Real people don’t have perfect arcs. Real problems don’t resolve in 300 pages. If your emotional responses are shaped more by novels than by lived experience, you may struggle to engage with the messy, unscripted nature of real relationships and social change.

How can I enjoy historical fiction without becoming detached from reality?

Read with intention. Ask yourself after each book: "What did this story leave out?" Then seek out the missing voices - through documentaries, academic articles, or oral histories. Visit museums. Talk to historians. Volunteer with heritage organizations. Let fiction spark curiosity, not escape. The goal isn’t to stop loving historical stories - it’s to let them lead you back to the real world, not away from it.

Do authors of historical fiction have a responsibility to be accurate?

Not necessarily - fiction isn’t journalism. But good historical fiction acknowledges its limits. Authors like Hilary Mantel or Colson Whitehead use fiction to explore truth, not replace it. They don’t pretend their stories are facts. They invite readers to ask: "What if?" and then go look. The best historical fiction doesn’t give you answers. It gives you questions - and the courage to ask them in real life.

Eldon Fairbanks

Eldon Fairbanks

I am an expert in shopping strategies and transforming mundane purchases into delightful experiences. I love to delve into literary culture and write articles exploring the realm of books, with a particular interest in the diverse literary landscape of India. My work revolves around finding the most efficient ways to enjoy shopping while sharing my passion for storytelling and literature. I continually seek new inspirations in everything from the latest fashion sales to the timeless books that shape our world.